寂寞时

This is for all my friends out there who are lost.  I keep on repeating, DONT FALL IN LOVE WHEN YOU ARE LONELY because that might be the wrong feeling and if you did, one day you will be single again.  After you are awake, you will find out that this guy or gal are not the one you love most.

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寂寞时，别轻易地接受一个人

When you are lonely, don't easily accept a person

寂寞时，别轻易地爱一个人

When you are lonely, don't easily love a person

有些爱本来很相爱最终却不能在一起，

Some have been very much in love but can't be together till the end,

有些爱本来不相爱最终却走到了最后，

Some people din't love each other at the first but eventually come to an end,

也不知道是爱情作弄人，还是时间作弄人，

We do not know love make fun of people, or time make fun of people,

错的时间里，遇见了一个对的人，与他相爱，

We meet the right people at the wrong time, and eventually in love,

最终两个人还是得回到属于自己的世界，

Finally the two people still have to return to their own world,

对的时间里，遇见了一个错的人，与他相爱，

We meet the wrong people at the right time, and eventually in love,

自己也知道自己爱的人不是他，却走到了最后...

They themselves know that he or she is not the people they really love, but eventually  they walk together till the end...

或许这世上本来就没有所谓对的人吧，

Perhaps in this world there are nothing called the right people,

只要在对的时间出现的那一个人，就是对的人了，

As long as the people appear at the right time that is called the right people,

在你感到寂寞与无助的时候，他出现了，他对你很好，

When you feel lonely and helpless, he appeared, he treat you good,

你已经分不清这是友情还是爱情了，

At this time you are unclear of whether it is love or friendship,

找不到一个可以拒绝他的理由所以在一起了，

He/she could not find a reason to refuse him/her so they be together,

在一起后觉得那感觉不对了，却不知道怎么分手，

After that it does not feel right together, but do not know how to break up,

找不到一个分手的理由，却也不知道该怎么继续...

Could not find a reason to break up, but do not know how to continue ...

你知道他爱你，但你对他始终少了那么一点感觉，

You know he loves you, but there are something wrong with the feeling,

寂寞的时候，你以为他就是对的人了，

When you are lonely, you think he is the right person,

可在一起以后，才发现自己比从前更寂寞了，

After being together, they find themselves are even more lonely than before,

因为他不能再与你分享寂寞了，

It is because he can not share your loneliness with you anymore,

他不再是朋友了，他是你的情人，

He is not a friend, but your lover,

虽然你很寂寞，却不能让他知道...

Even you are lonely, you can't let him know...

有时候，我们爱上的只是一个可以不让我们寂寞的人，

Sometimes, we only fall in love with a person who won't let us lonely,

但我们不知道在一起以后，就不能与他分享寂寞了，

But since we are together, we can not share loneliness with him,

因为他给不起你寂寞，他只能与你分享你的寂寞，

Because he could not give you lonely, he can only share with you your loneliness,

你心中的寂寞并不是因为他没有陪伴着你，

You feel so alone is not because he did not accompany you,

你寂寞是因为你心里真正想要的那个人不是他，

You will feel lonely is because the one you really want is not him,

对象是谁，你不知道，但你知道那个人不会是他...

Who is him, you not sure, but you know that he is not the one...

寂寞的时候，别轻易地接受一个人，你不会知道你爱上的什么，

Don't accept a person when you are lonely, you you will not know what you love,

你更不会知道你爱上的是他，还是有个人陪伴的感觉，

You don;t even know you really love him or just want a person who accompany you,

可以陪你寂寞的人不一定给得起你想要爱情，

The person who accompany you when you are lonely will not be the one who can give you love,

给得起你想要的爱情的人却一定能让你寂寞，

Person who afford to give you love will also give you lonely,

寂寞并不是与生俱来的，而是在你爱上一个人的那一刻起，

Loneliness is not innate, but is when the moment you love a person,

感受到寂寞，只是因为你爱的人不在你的身边，

You feel lonely is because the person you love are not around,

可以陪伴你走过寂寞的人，就不会是你的爱人...

The one who accompany you when you are lonely is not the person you love,

短暂的寂寞是因为你还没遇见对的人，

Short term loneliness is because you not yet meet the right person,

漫长的寂寞是因为你跟了一个错的人，

Long term loneliness is because you are with the wrong person,

爱情存在着寂寞，却也可以填补寂寞，

Love are filled with lonely,

只不过，

But then,

对的人是在相爱以后填补你的寂寞，

The right person will fill your loneliness after you are in love,

错的人是在相爱以前填补你的寂寞...

The wrong person fill your loneliness before you are in love...